Those that develop a plan for living a life of joy accept certain truths that argue against pop culture happiness:
· Material possessions may interfere with our getting that which is best for us.
· Not everything that makes us feel better is good for us.
· Not everything that hurts is bad for us.
· The idea that life must always be fair, easy and stress free engenders frustration, despair, and all sorts of addictions.
· The work of gathering and heaping interferes with a contented life.
· Virtuous choices—choices that leave us with no regrets—allow us to put aside things we want that may interfere with obtaining things of lasting value.
· Delaying gratification usually provides worthwhile pleasures.