Friday, December 14, 2007

ARE YOU AND CONFIDANT AND PERSONABLE?


MAKE CHECK MARK (√) IN APPROPRIATE COLUMN

LITTLE OF THE TIME

1-pt/each √

SOME OF THE TIME

2-pt/each √

A LOT OF THE TIME

3-pt/each √

MOST OF THE TIME

4-pt/each √

I am open-minded when making decisions with my loved ones.

 

 

 

 

I feel good about myself and treat myself kindly.

 

 

 

 

I have a friend I can count on when the chips are down.

 

 

 

 

I treat others the way I like to be treated.

 

 

 

 

Relationships with my family give me pleasure.

 

 

 

 

I accept my limitations and deficiencies.

 

 

 

 

I have an intimate and trusting relationship with someone I love.

 

 

 

 

I assert myself without being aggressive even when my opinions may be unpopular.

 

 

 

 

I feel empathy for those less fortunate than I am.

 

 

 

 

I keep my promises to others and myself.

 

 

 

 

Multiply √ by the value given in each column

 

 

 

 

 

Add the total for each column to get the GRAND TOTAL = ________

 

Scoring

10-14 points = Lonely and insecure

15-24 points = Few friends and little influence

25-34 points = Likable and understanding

34-40 points = ˜˜˜˜˜ confident friend and lover